The Process

She was walking in front of me on my way to class.  I could not help but admire her shape—tight waist transitioning smoothly to hips, gathering neatly in a beautifully distinct but not excessive.  An ass needs to curve outward in a near half-spherical shape.  Flatter is less fun but still pleasing, as long as the posterior extrusion is distinct and in proportion to the protrusion of the hips.  An overlarge ass will droop, and though can be pleasing on some body types, is not my personal ideal.

The fitting of jeans is remarkably important in this.  A girl may have a pleasing body, and ruin the aesthetics with clothing that create lumps or rolls.  Smoothness, flowing lines—soft but not gushy, firm but not hard… Muscle tone but no sharp cuts.

The waist should transition smoothly to torso and shoulders.  Shoulder to hip ratio is important, but I could not tell off the top of my head what…

I like slender thighs, myself.  Well proportioned legs.  Delicate ankles.

This is the first stage, and can generally be completed without ever seeing the front of a girl.  If her body is shapely from behind, the breasts are almost always well proportioned and pleasing.   Some softness of the belly is allowable, but I love that lateral line that forms on a slim abdomen.

That first stage is an initial shape filter.  Specific qualities are not appreciated as much as the proportions of the body as a whole.  This is fairly universal, though preferences in proportion will obviously vary.

This particular girl passed the first screen so superbly that I found myself walking faster, to pass her.  A part of me regrets already that she is so beautiful, and hopes that she passes the second screen… Because I will not have a chance to talk to her.

The next check is the face.  A quick sidelong glance reveals a delicate profile, a nose that is cute because it is so very moderate, shapely brow and well placed hairline.  I like to be able to see the jawline, though it must be narrow and feminine.  Cheekbones are subtle.  Skin is even colored and smooth.

I dislike neck fat.   A girl should be able to look down and not have the shape of the chin obscured by roundness, should be able to laugh without forming folds.

Apparently the most attractive women are the ones with proportions closest to the mean.  Not unkind—average.  Duh.  I think I agree with this.  Extreme features are generally masculine—except big eyes.  Babies have big eyes, and everyone likes those.

So after making sure there are no extreme features of the face, other smaller factors are measured.  Her gait and carriage, subtleties of demeanor, minor mannerisms, placement of eyes, natural facial expression, placement of hands.  Generally I think I’m checking for personality type—meek and self conscious, confident and showy.  I like a girl who feels comfortable, natural.

A double check of the face reveals eye color, lips, teeth, and… facial hair.

This particular girl had very light brown eyes, lighter than her hair, which was striking.  Her eyebrows complimented the shape of her face.  Her lips were full, though her mouth was smallish.

She was probably a 9, based only on appearance.

And then she opened a door to a math classroom and disappeared.  I will probably never talk to her.